How To Get Work Done With Kids Around

I've been doing this whole "work from home mom" thing for over a year now. I chose this life - as crazy as it is. I've learned a thing or two about how to juggle it all, and I thought I'd share some tips and tricks that have worked for me and the Gregory kids.

First, however, I'd like to point out that even though I have a year under my belt, this current situation is not sustainable. If this was any normal time, some of my tips would include getting out of the house, going to the library, or playing at the park. Since these aren't normal times, let's all give ourselves a little grace and allow the TV to babysit more than we'd care to admit.

Lower your expectations.

First things first... you have to allow yourself to be flexible and to realize that on any given day, shit could hit the fan, and you are just not going to get things done. Instead of letting this ruin your entire day, remember that you are a mom/dad first, and that your kids are your priority.

Redefine what "productive" means.

You need to go into the day realizing that you are simply not going to be as productive with certain tasks when the kids are around. I know that as soon as I open my computer, my kids are going to start nagging me. It's like a magnet or something. So, I don't even attempt it anymore. But I can still be productive - do the dishes, fold the laundry, vacuum - yes, all this other work that is bound to distract you at some point can easily be done while the kids run around your feet.

Set simple goals.

I go into each day knowing I need to get one specific thing done. Each week, my goal is to get three big things done. This keeps me on task and on track. These goals are attainable and realistic. I'm not trying to launch new products in a matter of days, but if I set small goals working toward a new one, it's going to eventually get done.

Be honest with yourself, and with others.

All of my clients know that I work at home with my kids. This isn't used as an excuse, but rather an understanding that I'm not always going to be able to answer right away. I've set up a good system with many of them, and I usually touch base with them every day, or every other day. I communicate the important things and this helps them feel confident that things are moving along.

Break up your day.

I try to wake up before the rest of the house (not always successful) and set my intentions for the day. I also enjoy a hot cup of coffee and have a few seconds of peace. I know once the kids wake up it's a mad rush for breakfast. After that, they usually play for a while and I try to get some housework done. If I have anything pressing for work, I usually try to get it done first thing so I don't have to worry about it. Lunch time and tv time comes next, followed by nap time. It's then that I get the majority of my work done. I get a solid two hours each day and count my blessings for it. After nap time, work is put away until after dinner cause the witching hour is real. Reese goes to bed around 7pm, and Finn around 8pm, so I can get some work done in that hour, and anything lingering is done after bed time. (I also get a workout in at some point, and I've been making this a priority for my mental health's sake.)

The secret is knowing when you are going to be able to get work done, versus when you just won't.